Heart Moments

Hi everyone. Rob here.

Sometimes your body tells you what your heart needs. I got sick last week and, out of necessity, missed church and a leadership meeting. Watching golf instead of singing hymns on a Sunday morning felt a bit surreal but my heart needed the break. A busy period of funerals and talks was flowing into another busy period of Easter preparation and services, as well as school board meetings and normal family life. All of that is fine if the heart is looked after, and I needed some extra help on that front. God helped me to put my sickness to good use. I got good rest. I enjoyed books and sport and my heart loves that. I let God love me. But it raises the question; how do we take care of our hearts when life just doesn’t stop? candle-66307_640

Sometimes you just can’t do less. Jobs have busy seasons as does family life, especially when the kids are young. There are social events that you want to be at to honour the people involved. Church activities hopefully have real value. Busyness is OK as long as the heart is not left behind. But we so often do leave it behind. We rush from one thing to another, giving here and giving there, and end up wondering why it all went by in such a blur. Here’s what I know. In order to be truly present in the moments of our lives we need to be truly present before God. We need to take time to pre-sent ourselves to him so we can pre-sent ourselves to others bearing his love and light. It’s worth remembering Jesus’ words in Matthew 11:28-30 (Message translation):

Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me – watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.

Jesus was a very busy man in the last few years of his life. God had given him a great mission and there was an urgency to Jesus’ words and actions, especially in the second half of the gospels. But he was able to sustain himself by presenting himself to the Father regularly. He would walk alone at night when all was quiet. He would take the disciples away to isolated places. He stayed with good friends. He received every moment as an invitation to do God’s will and further the kingdom. He didn’t need the crowds or activity for affirmation. He had all the affirmation he needed from his Father.

So for us the lesson is to follow Jesus. Be conscious that we walk with him through the day. Follow his rhythm of regular time-outs to present ourselves to God and allow our identity as beloved children of the Father to fill our minds and hearts. Sometimes that is just taking a minute to breathe in the name of Jesus and breathe out our anxious thoughts. Sometimes it’s taking a minute to simply sit still and silently before a meeting. Sometimes it’s choosing to be aware of your surroundings and noticing colours, smells and noises. Sometimes it’s allowing a favourite scripture or song lyric to recalibrate your thinking. Sometimes it’s a prayer of consecration before a difficult conversation or choosing to love another person and sincerely appreciating them. We may only have a moment but if those moments are given over to God then they become infused with divine power.

I have discovered that on my busiest days I need to deliberately slow down to let God’s Spirit fill that day. I have to choose not to think ahead, to not be anxious about parking, to worry less about time, to let go of all the things still undone and simply be present. I always have more time than I realized when my time is given into God’s hands.

Grace and peace everyone.

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Brand New Heart Ministries is a ministry designed to honour, protect and nurture the new hearts given us in Christ and also, the eternity set in every person’s heart. God wants a heart to heart relationship with us!
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2 Responses to Heart Moments

  1. Mark says:

    This touches on something I’ve thought a lot about over the years Rob. Many churches have a sabbatical for pastors which is great, necessary and biblical. I think it should also extend to the congregation. Without for a moment decrying those who put in years of faithful service I think there should be a mandatory break where youth leaders, Sunday school teachers, elders etc have to take a 3 or 6 month break from being involved in any leadership activities and just be ministered to. For pastors I would love to see something like 2 Sundays a year where they are able to go and just attend another church entirely and sit under someone else’s ministry. From experience I know that it’s just not the time spent ‘doing’ but the preparation, the phone calls from those who didn’t like something you did or said etc. A total break would do wonders.

    We also need to try and slow down and take a break and allow others to. Sometimes our expectations of others is too high and we don’t recognise others need the break we crave. I remember to my shame an incident when I was a young youth leader. We had a week long missions focus at church with activities every night. One night I went to a concert with my girlfriend as I needed a break. At the concert I saw our pastor. The exchange went something like this: Me: What are you doing here? It’s missions week”. Him: “What are you doing here?” Me: “But you’re the pastor”. Him: “Aren’t I allowed a break?” Me: Shameful silence as I learnt a lesson. Having subsequently spent time in what was virtually full time ministry I understand fully his point and have also experienced similar attitudes and comments that the younger version of me gave.

    Sometimes it’s just the little things, as you say, like walks. When I was a full time white water rafting operator we worked some crazy hours. On the raft/camping trips when everyone had headed to bed or their tent I would go out and sit on a rock and listen to the river, look at the night sky and take in Gods awesome creation. As well as a chance to unwind it reminded me of why I actually did what I did.

    • Good thoughts Mark. Care for the heart must be paramount, over and above “getting things done” even in church. Healthy people are far better witnesses than burnt out ones! Thanks for sharing with us.

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